The Power To Turnaround An Unhappy Marriage
Dan Dore 
In an unhappy marriage? If you discovered the power to create positive feelings in your wife, would you use it?
If you could turn around your unhappy marriage, would you? Or have you already decided that it's doomed and not worth the effort?
What if I told you that you have way more power than you think to return the relationship to a fun, relaxed, loving and sexual marriage again...what would you say?
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When I was in your shoes I decided that it was worth a shot. At least if I chose to leave, it would be with the knowledge that I tried everything I could.
So, back to this power thing...
If you had the power to create positive feelings in your wife, would you use it or keep it to yourself and wait until she made you feel good first?
This question points to the kind of man that you want to be.
Do you want to be a generous man?
Do you want to be an assertive leader of your life and relationships?
Do you want to trust yourself?
Do you want to feel confident (maybe even a little cocky) in yourself again?
Marriage can be a tough place to keep your self confidence intact, especially when there are negative interactions between you happening regularly.
What if I told you that you already have this power.
Would you believe me?
We call it your Authentic Masculinity and here at NOBUL Men, we're focused on helping you rediscover your strength and belief in who you are as a man and your ability to create the passionate life and relationship you really want.
You see, when it comes to your relationships, especially your romantic and parenting relationships, you are being watched all the time.
This isn't through people staring at you. It's a much subtler "feeling and sensing" of your mood and intentions.
Your wife (and kids and other women in your life) are highly sensitive to your intentions, your tone, your words, your emotion, and your mood.
Your authentic masculinity, when cultivated correctly, is your secret power to create feelings of connection, happiness, trust, and respect in those people you care about most (it also affects your role as a respected and trusted leader in all other areas of your life too).
When you begin learning about this power, you may feel cheated and frustrated that no-one has explained this to you before now, I know I did.
It's also tempting to doubt yourself and shrink back into excuses relating to the obstacles in your way:
If you have a wife who rejects you when you initiate affection and sex.
If you have a boss or employees who don't show you respect.
If your relationship with your kids is adversarial and tense.
If you feel ashamed about mistakes you've made in the past.
But those things are great indicators for the areas you need to grow and rather than making things worse, when you live to values you believe in and are willing to stand up for, people respect you - even when they disagree with your opinion.
In fact wives tell me all the time that they thought the feelings of attraction were gone for good until their husbands started working on their authentic masculinity with commitment and purpose.
And the men, when they start doing this work and feeling their self respect and confident swagger coming back, can't wait to make up for lost time as they finally start living as a man who stands up tall and embraces who he is and what he's here to create in this life.
They see how they've been stingy with this power to lead the energy and good feelings in their marriage.
They decide that the man they want to be from here on out will use this power constantly.
A NOBUL man gives this gift of masculine strength and authenticity to those people he cares about not to GET something from them, but because it is who he is and who he loves to be.
What does it look like, sound like and feel like to be living as an authentic masculine man?
You are genuinely happy, optimistic and confident the vast majority of the time.
You generously express authentic words of affirmation and support to those people that you choose to surround yourself with.
You are full of energy, respect, admiration, and trust.
If anyone treats you in a way that you don't agree with, you calmly and confidently express what you think and feel without concern for how they might take it.
If these gifts are delivered from your authentic masculine core of confidence and self-respect, their truth and power are undeniable.
You may doubt this power exists in yourself but I don't tell you this just to have something to write about. This is absolutely true. I've experienced it for many years personally and I have a list of past clients who have been blown away at just how good they are at it too.
If you think about it, you have done this many times in your life and still do...such as when your kids are struggling and upset
If a man is unable to give these natural gifts from a place of love and a developed masculine core, he has NO BUSINESS expecting to receive these from anyone else in his life. Until he learns how to use his secret power, ALL of his relationships will experience problems because he has not accepted his role in creating an environment where others can feel safe in giving of themselves and showing their trust and respect in him.
I invite all men who want to become the man they were meant to be to think about their secret power. Is it developed enough? Do you understand it well enough? What can you do tomorrow that will show your commitment to using the power wisely?
This is a life skill that is a GAME CHANGER. Contact me right away to discuss YOUR plans for changing this skill AND the rest of your life.
Working with a men's coach will help speed up the process and dig past the limiting beliefs you may have that are holding you back.
Watch our free webinar on the four steps to transform a struggling marriage into a passionate, loving, marriage again.
Contact us here to apply for a free coaching call and learn more about your inbuilt power to lead and create positive feelings whenever you want to.
Categories: : attraction, confidence, marriage, unhappy marriage